How we speak, how we're heard

This week, instead of sharing articles or podcasts, I want to leave you with a question to reflect on.

I recently came across an interesting perspective about the way we speak and how it’s perceived. For some, speaking quickly can be seen as dismissive, a sign that the speaker doesn’t have time to fully engage, as though they’d rather be elsewhere. In contrast, speaking slowly is often viewed as generous, a way of gifting the listener time and attention.

As someone who naturally speaks quickly, I often try to cram as much detail as possible into a short moment, thinking it’s efficient and respectful of the other person’s time. But this may not always come across as intended, especially in contexts where slower speech is seen as more thoughtful or considerate.

So here’s my question for you: How does the way someone speaks fast or slow impact how you perceive them? And how might your own communication style influence the way others feel?

I’d love to hear your thoughts.